You deserve to heal, too.
Overcome betrayal and start on a path to feeling whole again.
MarCH 6th
We want to help you feel like you again.
Partners and spouses of addicts experience trauma, but they are often overlooked. Betrayal trauma is real, and it can often result in symptoms that resemble PTSD. We designed the Partner's Intensive to provide the space and care to address the pain you’ve experienced, and to begin your own journey to healing and recovery.
Who It’s For
Women who are partners or spouses to men struggling with porn and sex addiction
What It’s For
Healing and education to address betrayal trauma and trauma symptoms
What It Is
6-day comprehensive and discreet clinical treatment that includes trauma therapy and psychoeducation
What It Includes
Full retreat-style room and board accommodations, transit to and from the Denver airport, therapy sessions, and guided experiential activities

Wrap-around treatment that
covers all the details.
Airport Transportation
We'll pick you up and drop you off at the Denver airport.
Retreat-Style Accommodations
Full room and board. We provide lodging and home-cooked meals in a beautiful home for a comfortable stay.
Alumni Care
Care doesn't stop when the intensive is over. We offer continued accountability, coaching, and support for all clients following each intensive.
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Betrayal Trauma Guide
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It’s time to make the change.
The client for the 6-Day Partner's Intensive is an woman who has experienced the pain and disorientation that comes from a significant betrayal in their relationship. This could be infidelity or another form of profound deceit or disloyalty.
They are currently navigating a world turned upside down by betrayal, yet display a profound resilience and a desire to heal, grow, and rediscover their authentic selves.
This intensive is for the person who recognizes that their pain stems not only from their partner’s actions, but also from the deep rupture of trust that has occurred. They are seeking a safe space to express their feelings, learn about betrayal trauma, and connect with others who are experiencing similar struggles.
Our client might be feeling lost, isolated, or overwhelmed, yet displays a sense of determination and hope. They understand that recovery will take time and effort, but they are willing to embark on that journey. They are not merely looking to “get over” the betrayal but to grow through it, reclaiming their self-confidence, finding their voice, and setting boundaries to protect and respect their wellbeing.
This person is ready to step into their power, recognize their worth, and make decisions that align with their needs and values. They’re prepared to take the necessary steps toward their recovery, even if those steps seem daunting.
In essence, the client for the Partner's Intensive is someone who, despite their pain and confusion, is ready to embark on a journey toward healing, self-discovery, and personal growth. They’re looking to turn this challenging chapter of their life into a stepping-stone towards a stronger, more authentic self.
BAI’s Partner's Intensive is a six-day, trauma-focused intensive focused on providing support, guidance, and healing tools for partners who have experienced betrayal in their relationships. This may include infidelity, dishonesty, or other breaches of trust that have resulted in the need to reestablish safety and a new sense of stability and self-direction in their own lives as a way to heal from the dysregulation of the past.
The five-day intensive includes between 30-40 group and individual therapy hours from an expert team of Betrayal Trauma specialists. A light breakfast and lunch will also be provided each day of the intensive.
Clients will be responsible for their own transportation and lodging. We have a room block reserved at the hotel directly across the street from the office where the intensive takes place (within walking distance).
Yes. Whether you’re still in the relationship or not, this intensive can offer valuable insights and coping strategies to help you navigate your own healing process. It is a supportive space for anyone dealing with the aftermath of betrayal.
Absolutely. If you are dealing with the emotional trauma of betrayal from a past relationship, this intensive is right for you. It is incredibly common to have relational residue transfer from one relationship to another. The goal of this intensive is to help all participants understand the boundaries and skills needed to end the transference of old relationships so that they can start fresh with new opportunities for authentic connections.
Yes. The impact of betrayal trauma can linger for many years. If you’re still dealing with the emotional aftermath, no matter how long ago the betrayal happened, you can benefit from this intensive.
The Partner Intensive is currently being offered only to women at this time.
Nothing. Sexual addiction is caused by trauma that leaves the addict unable to connect or to be authentic. In other words, the addict can tolerate short periods of intimacy, but cannot stay intimate for consistent periods of time. This on-again/off-again closeness can be challenging and damage your self-worth. Your partner’s infidelity and unhealthy sexual behavior have nothing to do with you in any way. It is not about your looks, your intelligence, or your age. Addiction has everything to do with an individual’s feelings of inadequacy that must be treated before there is any hope of connection or intimacy.
Of course! While group therapy and intensive work may feel a little intimidating at first, many find it to be an incredibly supportive and rewarding experience. It allows you to connect with others who are going through similar experiences, providing mutual understanding not only of each other’s journeys but also of your own.
Yes, the group is designed to support individuals regardless of the number of betrayals they have experienced. Each individual’s experience with betrayal is unique, and the group can provide tools and strategies to help manage and heal from these traumas in a way that helps to end the cycle of betrayal while also giving you autonomy back in your relationships.
Absolutely. When the addict fully commits to stopping the behavior and healing the underlying issues, the possibility of a healthy relationship is certainly possible. At Begin Again Institute, we have a 98% satisfaction rate.
Some trips can wait.
This one shouldn’t.
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